Relationship

What is it about relationship that we put in so much effort to make it work? Heres my friend with a low life boyfriend who doesnt know his place as a man and takes every opportunity to collect her money,insult and accuse her of cheating on him even though he knows she is not. I wonder....... I have realised relationship is not a do or die affair if it is not working the way we want its best we work out of it. The mistake our mothers made should be a lesson for us, we shouldnt kill ourselves over people that doesnt deserve us and end up being married because of our children. In anything we do we should put ourselves first before anybody especially those that are not worth dying for.

My friend wrote on her facebook status "Tears are only shed for people we love...............
but these people we love do they really love us to make these sacrifices we make for them, Edo women believe in staying with their men till the end but I ve noticed that these women were not really happy they slave themselves just to keep the family going yet the men didnt appreciate them.

Anyway I am really vexed with the news I heard this morning or should I say I am heart broken I just hope she learns pretty fast because to me this so called love of hers is not worth the tears..................................................

Bad gurlsssssssss

what is it about guys and bad gurls that i dont really get? How come they actually prefer those that dont want them and insults them than the good gurls that are willing to go the extra mile with them? I had an opportunity to meet an old friend that took all my effort for granted but here was his new gurl shouting at him and all he could do was apologise and explained, how come he never appreciated it then when we were together? Does it mean one has to be bad to enjoy a relationship? Thinking of the whole thing I just remembered this from a top I once had "good girls go to heaven bad girls go everywhere"

just another day

its just another day nothing interesting happening yet am yet to know my ground here, I seem to be getting offers from where i just left which now makes me wonder if i have made the right decision. I am sure i have though i am still trying to get use to this place. Anyways just been wondering whats up with guys these days they all seem to be running after "independent women" to me i feel it is mere greed, is it wrong to meet a man  that would love a woman without referring to her job, can't men just love women for who they are rather than what they have. I have ponder over this for a while because its been happening to me I noticed that when i meet a guy before they even ask for my name they ask what i do for a living is it my job they are really interested in or me? if men want women that would contribute to their duties as the husband who then would be the head of the house? I definately would like to have my own source of income when am married but it doesnt mean i should take over my husband responsibilites. This is the way i see this whole "independent women" talk because i ve asked them what kind of woman is really termed "Independent women" and i am yet to get a satisfactory explanation. Well i hope i'll get to meet that man that will love and appreciate me for who i am not what i am................................................